Why You Should Wait Before Picking Up Your Fork
At a formal dinner, timing matters. One of the simplest but most telling ways to show respect is to wait for the host to begin before you start eating.
This small gesture says, “I value the person who brought us together.” It also keeps everyone in sync, creating a sense of order and ease at the table.
In moments like these, etiquette isn’t about rules for rules’ sake. It’s about respect, awareness, and setting the tone for a positive experience.
The next time you sit down for a meal, take a breath, wait for the host’s cue, and enjoy the confidence that comes with doing things the gracious way.
This tip is adapted from Elaine Swann’s Book of Modern Etiquette—the modern guide to living well with Grace and Style.
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