Why Spaghetti Isn’t the Best Choice at a Business Dinner

A business dinner isn’t just about the food — it’s about the impression you leave. Everything from your conversation to the way you handle your meal shapes how others perceive you.

That’s why it’s best to avoid dishes that can get messy or complicated, like spaghetti, ribs, or oversized sandwiches. These foods may be delicious, but they require extra attention and can easily create distractions. Instead of focusing on the people at the table, you may find yourself worrying about spills, stains, or awkward bites.

Choosing a simpler dish allows you to stay present and confident. It signals that you understand the setting and respect the purpose of the meal: building relationships.

At a business dinner, let the conversation be the highlight — not the cleanup.

This tip is adapted from Elaine Swann’s Book of Modern Etiquette. The modern guide to living well with Grace and Style. [Order your copy here.]